“Exactly How It’s ‘Posed to Be” – The Novel About Love, Choices, and Waiting: guest Trent D. Walters
By Lana Reid | March 12, 2025
As part of the Black Men Matter series, this episode features Trent D. Walters, author of the faith-based romance novel Exactly How It’s ‘Posed to Be. Set on a fictional HBCU campus, Walters explores life’s big decisions—from love and patience to faith and identity—while discussing how modern youth can find value in waiting, making wise choices, and embracing their stories.
Faith, Romance, and Relationships in Modern Storytelling
In this episode of “The Male Perspective,” Lana talks with Trent D. Walters — Author of the faith-based romance novel, “Exactly How It’s ‘Posed to Be.” Set against the vibrant backdrop of a fictional HBCU college campus, Trent discusses the important life lessons woven into his narrative, such as the impact of personal choices and the continued relevance of abstaining from sex until marriage in modern society.
For more information on Trent D. Walters
- Official Website: Exactly How It’s ‘Posed to Be
- Trent D. Walters on Amazon
- Instagram: @trentdubya
- TikTok: @trentdwalters
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