Changing the Narrative on Black Fatherhood | The Power of Community: guest Matt Prestbury
By Lana Reid | November 5, 2025
As part of the Black Men Matter Series, Lana Reid sits down with Matt Prestbury, founder of the Facebook group Black Fathers, to discuss the movement he created to uplift and connect Black men through shared experiences of parenting. Prestbury reflects on the inspiration behind forming a digital space where fathers could find brotherhood, encouragement, and understanding. He also speaks about how Black Fathers—which has grown to more than 100,000 members since its launch in 2008—has become a powerful platform for rewriting the narrative around Black fatherhood, showcasing love, leadership, and everyday commitment to family and community.
In this episode of The Male Perspective, host Lana Reid sits down with Matthew Prestbury, founder of the Facebook community Black Fathers. Established in 2008, the group has grown to over 100,000 members, serving as a positive and empowering space that celebrates the joys and challenges of fatherhood while dismantling long-held stereotypes about Black men as parents.
Matt opens up about his personal journey—the experiences that led him to create a community where Black fathers could feel seen, supported, and connected. Driven by a desire to shift the narrative, he envisioned a space where men could share their stories, uplift one another, and remind the world that involved, loving, and responsible Black fathers aren’t rare exceptions—they’re the norm.
Through his leadership, Black Fathers has become a hub of encouragement, brotherhood, and representation. Members share stories of parenthood, challenges, triumphs, and growth—building a virtual community that extends far beyond Facebook. The group stands as living proof that visibility and unity can change perceptions, strengthen families, and foster pride in Black fatherhood.
For those seeking inspiration, solidarity, or a reminder of what fatherhood truly looks like, this conversation is a testament to the power of connection and purpose.
Learn More About Matt Prestbury
- Black Fathers Facebook Group
- Rooted In Culture, Raised In Love
- Butterfly Messages: How I Learned to Ground Myself – Book on Amazon
- Instagram – @SouthboundSoulmates
- Smokin Roaches Co.
Connect with Lana Reid
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