Navigating Modern Dating in the Black Community: Matthew C. Horne
By Lana Reid | November 15, 2023
As part of the Black Men Matter Series, Lana Reid sits down with Matthew C. Horne, author and motivational speaker, to discuss navigating modern dating in the Black community. Matthew shares perspectives on communication, relationship expectations, and personal growth, reflecting on how cultural shifts, social pressures, and individual accountability shape dating experiences today. The conversation centers on understanding dynamics rather than assigning blame, with an emphasis on clarity, responsibility, and emotional awareness.
In this episode of The Male Perspective, Matthew C. Horne offers a thoughtful and balanced conversation about relationships, self-reflection, and dating expectations.
Matthew explains how modern dating is influenced by evolving social norms, technology, and cultural narratives that often complicate communication and connection. He discusses how misunderstandings can arise when individuals enter relationships without clarity around values, intentions, and emotional readiness.
Throughout the conversation, Lana Reid and Matthew explore the importance of communication and emotional awareness. Matthew shares how understanding one’s own triggers, expectations, and boundaries helps create healthier dating experiences. He emphasizes that growth begins with self-reflection rather than projecting frustration onto others.
The discussion also highlights accountability and personal development. Matthew reflects on how individuals can improve relationship outcomes by taking responsibility for their choices, communication styles, and emotional habits. He underscores that healthy relationships are built through honesty, empathy, and mutual understanding rather than assumptions or external pressure.
This episode reinforces the importance of intentional dating, emotional maturity, and open dialogue when navigating relationships in today’s social landscape.
About the Guest
Matthew C. Horne is an author and motivational speaker whose work focuses on relationships, self-reflection, and personal development. He encourages individuals to approach dating and relationships with clarity, accountability, and emotional awareness.
For more information on Matthew C. Horne:
http://www.matthewchorne.com/
http://instagram.com/matthewchorne
https://twitter.com/matthewchorne
https://www.facebook.com/lightningfastbp/
About the Series
This episode is part of the Black Men Matter Series, highlighting Black men who share perspectives on relationships, personal growth, and navigating modern social dynamics with thoughtfulness and nuance.
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The Male Perspective is hosted by Lana Reid, founder of Conversations in Color, a nonprofit 501(c)(3) grassroots organization dedicated to providing uplifting and community-building spaces of dialogue for Black voices.
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