👉❤️ When you go to buy a car, most often you will have a list of “wants” and “needs.” A family driver might need more seating and an easy to clean interior while a college student might need something that’s gas efficient and low maintenance. When you purchase the car, you already understand that somewhere along the way you have to take it to the car wash, get oil changes, buy tires and so on. You commit to maintaining the car so that it can last you as long as your grandfather’s old Buick lasted him. Your relationship is no different. After you make the decision that the relationship serves your needs and wants, then prepare to commit and invest in it.